In Case I Am Gone, Start Here & Always Remember

When my wife’s mother suddenly and unexpectedly died, she was left scrambling.  No idea where the accounts were, what bills were owed, or even where to start.  Just panic and guesswork on top of grief.
And soon, she realized... when someone we love is gone, it is the little things we start yearning for later.
What was their favorite color? What song always made them smile? How did they make that meal everyone always loved? What stories did they tell that nobody thought to write down?

Later, when my wife got sick, I realized I was one emergency away from the exact same chaos. I didn’t know the logins, the due dates, or half the things that keep our life running. How she made that awesome spaghetti our kids love so much. What was that one flower she always stopped to smell? What will she never get a chance to tell our kids about when they're grown?

This book exists so the people who depend on you aren’t left scrambling looking for answers.

IN CASE I AM GONE,
START HERE & ALWAYS REMEMBER

When someone we love is gone, we are left with two kinds of missing them.

The first is practical.
Where are the accounts?
What bills are due?
Where do we even start?

The second is personal.
What was their favorite color?
What song always made them smile?
How did they cook that special meal?
What did they never get to say?

This book is for both.
START HERE for the life that has to keep going.
ALWAYS REMEMBER so they can keep you.

Inside you’ll find:
• Emergency contacts and first steps
• Accounts, bills, insurance, and important papers
• Medical information, passwords, home and vehicle details
• Letters to the people you love
• The words you don’t want them to wonder about
• Favorite things, stories, and the little details that made you you

Fill it out once. Update it when things change.
Keep it where the right person can find it.

The big memories are usually easy to find.
The small ones are not.